Hi there. It sounds like you are having a very difficult time. It is understandable and appropriate to seek advice about your obligations as a father to see and support your children.

There are no formal requirements for how much a parent must visit their children in the every day course of life, but both parents do have the right to see their children. The law will not intervene in the private arrangements that parents have regarding access unless parents request it to do so. So long as the arrangement is mutually beneficial, most parents choose not to involve the courts. If you are not happy with the amount your wife is allowing you to see your children you can apply to have the court make an order that you can see them. Your wife does not have the right to prevent you from seeing your children unless a Court has said she does. This will require you to see a lawyer, who will learn about your situation, and then guide you to the best course of action.